33-year-old gets excluded from her friend's bachelorette party while 5 members of their friend group of 20 years attended without question: 'I feel humiliated. Like a spare part in a friendship I thought I was still part of.'

We've all had the experience of being The One excluded from our friend groups, and it's so painful. Most of us like to think that now that we've graduated from junior high, we're much less likely to be intentionally excluded by those closest to us, but that's not always the case. One of my best friends lived abroad for a year and returned to find that her six best friends had all created a group chat without her called "The Sixers," refusing to even take a picture with her upon her arrival home. These were literally adult women! The way I see it, if you decide to cut off a friend like that, you should be strong enough to at least tell them to their face instead of letting them find out about their exclusion from other sources. Nobody wants the stomach-churning experience of seeing all of your besties tagged in a photo at a place you weren't invited to.

The woman in this story experienced exclusion at this level and is at a loss regarding what to do about it. Should she come crawling back to the friends she's known since she was 13, or should she say goodbye because they don't care enough to include her?
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33-year-old gets excluded from her friend's bachelorette party while 5 members of their friend group of 20 years attended without question: 'I feel humiliated. Like a spare part in a friendship I thought I was still part of.'

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